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of correcting an ignorant or a foolish man,
    or a dotard who bickers with the young;
in this way, you will exhibit your sound training
    and win universal approval.

May Your Daughter Not Make You Ashamed[a]

A daughter is a treasure that makes her father anxious,
    and in his worry about her he loses sleep:
when she is young, for fear she may never marry,
    and when she is married, for fear her husband may hate her;
10 when she is a virgin, for fear she may be seduced
    and become pregnant in her father’s house;
when she has a husband, for fear she may prove unfaithful,
    and after marriage, for fear she may prove to be barren.

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Footnotes

  1. Wisdom of Ben Sira 42:9 Women constituted a mystery in the eyes of the ancients. Their virtue seemed threatened, and moreover, they seemed to be a plague along the path of men (see vv. 12-14). We find this mistrust and this paradox among many ancient Jewish authors. But we would do the author an injustice if we did not recall how beautifully he sang the praises of the good wife (see Sir 26:1-4, 15-18; 36:21-27).